Assalamualaikum,
Mungkin ni artikel yang lama n pernah keluar mana2 magazine kalau tak salah saya, cz saya pernah terbaca sekali dulu, saya tertarik dengan cara Wardina dalam mendidik anak2nya untuk menunaikan solat 5 waktu. So entry kali ni sekadar berkongsi pengetahuan yang saya ambil daripada blog http://amiro82.blogspot.com. Kebetulan saje cari-cari maklumat n terbaca lah info dari kawan kita ni. Good info n knwledge to be shared.
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Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda…
I have to share this with you…
because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off…I
started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her
7th birthday…we had a talk…(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6
la…
tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat….she hasnt
missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of
that – because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang
LIAT nanti….But it is very important to keep this in mind:-
1)
kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the
wrong signal – kena make sure – every waktu without fail, walaupun
penat, ataupun lambat
2) l Selalu kalau boleh solat
together..mula2 memang kena solat together….kalau tak ada rumah make
sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi
her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas
solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum – i always kiss her at the head
and say “Barakallahufiha” Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya
Allah….make her never miss her solat Ya Allah…..kuat2 bagi dia dengar….
ps:-
kalau kena amik cuti ambillah – bukan waktu exam je amik cuti – buatlah
STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A
BIG Thing! “mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5
waktu sehari!”
3) Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to
solat..how Allah is watching us… how we are good Muslims when we solat,
how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah…..TAPI
selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat…acknowledge the fact
that sometimes we feel lazy to solat….itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them
off….! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna
that….we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER
miss our solat…..
4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as
soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang
leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn
strictness)
5) kalau dia tinggal – DENGAN sengaja, i take the
rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After
that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember –
and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad,
sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat,
dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its
ok…but kena solat terus bila bangun.
Macam ni ceritanya, i told
Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar
kat sekolah….tadi memang datang lambat…i was loking for her..and guess
what????
She was actually praying her Asar prayers…sorang je kat
dalam surau tu….i wanted to pengsan and cry…she did all by herself…. i
pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her…i tanya dia kenapa?
dia kata “Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap”…..cair nya hatiku ini.
Apa
lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia….and called nenek at Australia…now im
sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good
Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah
because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!
And
the foundation is – to start them off right – solat at SEVEN! Yes just
as how Rasulullah asked us!I love you all!!! Good night….. But the key
to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu…anak ketam tak boleh
diajar berjalan terus…fahamkan?
Mudah-mudahan kita dapat mendidik anak kita menjadi seorang MUSLIM yang berkualiti dalam mengharungi dunia yang penuh dengan cabaran dan dugaan. Amin.